Cleaning and Caring for Your Toys

Anal play moves bacteria around. Cleaning is not fussiness; it is the difference between a hobby and a UTI.

Immediately after use

Rinse the toy under warm running water and wash with unscented mild soap or a dedicated toy cleaner. Pay attention to the base, the ridge under any head shape, and any texture — those are where residue hides.

Rinse thoroughly. Soap residue is a common cause of irritation.

Dry with a lint-free cloth or air-dry fully before storing. Damp storage is how mould starts.

Deeper cleaning

Non-porous, motor-free silicone, glass and stainless steel toys can be boiled for three minutes or run through a dishwasher top rack with no detergent. Never boil anything containing a motor, a battery, or a bonded seam.

Non-porous toys with electronics: wipe down with a toy cleaner and keep the charging port dry.

Harnesses

• Leather: wipe with a damp cloth, dry flat, and condition occasionally. Never machine wash.
• Nylon, neoprene and fabric: hand wash in cool water with mild soap, air dry. Check the manufacturer's care label first.
• O-rings: wash separately; they collect lubricant residue.

Storage

Store silicone toys separately, not touching each other. Different silicone formulations can react on contact and leave permanent marks. Individual cloth bags or a lined case solve this.

Keep everything out of direct sunlight and away from heat.

When to retire a toy

Replace immediately if you see tackiness, a change in smell, discolouration that will not wash off, cracks, tears, or any surface that no longer feels smooth. A damaged non-porous toy has become a porous toy.

Never share without a barrier

If a toy moves between partners or between anal and vaginal use, change the condom on it and reapply lubricant. This is the single highest-value hygiene habit in the entire practice.