The library
Everything we know, in the order you need it.
Nine sections, written for adults who want specifics rather than innuendo. Each section is a complete guide in its own right, with shorter deep-dives underneath it for the decisions that deserve more room.
New to this? Start with Fundamentals.
Ready to buy? Go to Equipment.
Something not working? Try Troubleshooting.
The nine sections
Read in order, or dip inDeep-dives by level
10 shorter guidesBeginner
What Is Pegging?
A plain-language definition, where the term came from, and why the practice is far more common than most people assume.
Pegging for Beginners: A Step-by-Step First Session
A realistic walkthrough of a first session, from the conversation to aftercare, with timings that are not optimistic.
Choosing Your First Strap-On
How harness style, ring size, and dildo material interact — and the sizing mistake almost every first-time buyer makes.
Communication Before Trying Pegging
How to raise the subject, how to hear a no, and the specific questions that make the first attempt go well.
Lubricants Explained
Water-based, silicone, hybrid and oil — what each is for, what each destroys, and how much you actually need.
Cleaning and Caring for Your Toys
A short, boring routine that prevents infections and doubles the life of your gear.
Intermediate
Harness Types and Getting the Fit Right
Why most harness complaints are fit complaints, and how to adjust for stability, comfort and thrust angle.
Materials: Silicone vs TPE and Everything Else
Porosity, sterilisation, durometer and why 'body-safe' on a box means nothing on its own.
Size Guide and Sensible Progression
How to move up in size without setbacks, and why circumference matters far more than length.